Tag Archives: 2015

Rough Crowd December: CBT – Manhandling – Ball Busting, Kicking, and Twisting (feat. Mistress Simone)

Rough Crowd Date: Sunday, December 6, 2015


This month we have a special guest speaker, Mistress Simone, who will be presenting CBT – Manhandling – Ball Busting, Kicking, and Twisting.
Does it get you hot to control a man through his most sensitive parts? Do you like the feeling of power when you grab his package and squeeze? Does a women putting you in your place turn you on? One of Mistress Simone’s personal favorite fetishes! How to handle this sensitive area without permanently damaging the goods is covered deeply in this seminar. Proper technique for manipulating them is shown. Bodily fluid issues and basic anatomy covered. Aftercare will be covered as well as this play can require a delayed response. Interactive technique based demo. Activities covered amy include ball kicking, twisting, stepping, kicking, trampling and smothering,facesitting.

101: Basic anatomy and safety are a large focus in 101. The naughty bits will be dissected and discussed so when manipulating them for sensation we know what you are manipulating. 101 tends to be be about sensations we can create using a wide variety of fun implements.

Time permitting, Mistress Simone will also cover some CBT with toys, in…

Manipulating Those Jewels: CBT 101

Mistress’s passion! The focus of each demo is on a specific level from beginner to advanced. Covers basic anatomy of the male genital area plus safety types for handling. Different types of cock and ball toys will be explained. Simple tricks to advanced rope bondage depending on level presented. Nudity involved with male sub. Aimed toward education on doing cbt and inspiring dominants to expand on their techniques. Pansexual friendly. Audience participation is encouraged by Simone. She will assist those seeking it in putting these techniques into play.

Sunday, December 6, 2015
1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
Register link is always available in the sidebar to your left.
An auto-responder email will be sent within moments of your registration, with location info and travel directions.
FetLife Event page is here: https://fetlife.com/events/392129; do sign up, but you still have to register (see above).
FetLife discussion page is here: https://fetlife.com/groups/35092/group_posts/8085851

Bringing your own play partner is always awesome, but not required; while couples and groupings are always encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come to Rough Crowd.

All genders, ages, experience levels, races, shoe sizes, sexual orientations and preferences, religions, pet preferences, fitness levels, tax brackets, partnership status, poly, D/s, M/s, height, eye color, and pizza topping choices are welcome (even all veggie pizza, if that’s your thing; your pizza is not my pizza, and that’s OK).

If you’re into rough body play, or if you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it *is* for you. Come to Rough Crowd for overview, instruction, and practice time. Safety and technique will be first, and then ideas and practice time. No experience necessary; you’ll have some by the time you leave.


Standard Info About Rough Crowd

Rough Crowd is:

• 18 & up
• Cheap (twenty bucks!)
• Open to all levels of skill and experience

Registration

Every attendee must register for any given Rough Crowd. To register, just go to the eventbrite link above in the details block and follow along. Registration deadline is 24 hours in advance. No exceptions: you must be registered for the event to attend.

How Rough Crowd Works:
If you’ve never been to a Rough Crowd before (or if you just have questions), check out our FAQ:
FetLife: Rough Crowd details: What, Where, When, How
Web: FAQ: When, Where, Who, How

Spread The Word:
Rough Crowd is successful because you make it successful. When I post these things, they get as far as the people already in the group, and people who happen to see my post in their feeds. The more the merrier, and new faces are always welcome and encouraged. We can reach a larger and more diverse crowd, and you can help!

Spread the word on FetLife:
You can help spread the word by posting (or re-posting) about Rough Crowd, linking to this discussion or the event page, in any groups you’re a part of, on friends walls who you think would love a topic, or even just in your own status.

Spread the word on your personal blog:
You can help spread the word on the non-FL web by posting about Rough Crowd and linking to the roughcrowd.org url above. Posts here always have a companion post there.

Retweet on Twitter, reblog on Tumblr:
You can help spread the word on social media!
— Follow me on Twitter (http://twitter.com/roughinamorato) and retweet info about Rough Crowd
— Follow me on Tumblr (https://www.tumblr.com/blog/roughinamorato) and reblog info about Rough Crowd
— Re-post on other social media (though please never on Facebook)
— Use the hashtag #RoughCrowd

You can help wherever you and your fellow kinksters gather.
Feel free to spread the word in whatever way you have available to you! (Except not Facebook.)

Wear Rough Crowd With Pride!
And of course, wearing your Rough Crowd gear – t-shirts, hoodies, yoga pants, whatever – whenever you’re at kinky gatherings shows that you’re a part of Rough Crowd too. They’re popping up – quite literally – all over the world!

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Hope to see a bunch of you at Rough Crowd,

Roughinamorato


Rough Crowd November: Rough Rope

Rough Crowd Date: Sunday, November 1, 2015


Two of the most popular topics in kink in Chicago: rough body play, and rope. Like chocolate and peanut butter, hot dogs and jalapeños, and first dates and lube, the two should go together famously. I’m sure they often do, but how often have you seen a rope top do an amazing rigging only to start hitting like a sissy maid in a butch bar? Sacre bleu! Slow sensual bondage may be lovely, but that’s not what we’ll be doing here, kids.

Bondage can be mean, and we’ll take a little time looking at some common ties and new approaches to making them meaner. Beyond that, let’s remember that there are lots of things to do with rope – lots of terrible, mean, wonderful things – that have nothing to do with bondage. What better than to explore them?

In this class we’ll discuss some things to do with rope in between your bondage… during, before, after, and maybe even as a surprise when they come home from work and they least expect it. Floggers, whips, cudgels, gags, and the patented (not really) Roughinamorato Ropefist.

Bring your rope. If you already know how to tie a TK that’s great, but if you don’t know what the hell a TK is that’s fine too – you’ll still learn some good (terrible) stuff.

Things To Bring

* Rope, if you have it
* Partner, if you have one (or two, or… )
* Diabolical streak

Sunday, November 1, 2015
1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
Register link is always available in the sidebar to your left.
An auto-responder email will be sent within moments of your registration, with location info and travel directions.
FetLife Event page is here: https://fetlife.com/events/392120; do sign up, but you still have to register (see above).
FetLife discussion page is here: https://fetlife.com/groups/35092/group_posts/8085681

Bringing your own play partner is always awesome, but not required; while couples and groupings are always encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come to Rough Crowd.

All genders, ages, experience levels, races, shoe sizes, sexual orientations and preferences, religions, pet preferences, fitness levels, tax brackets, partnership status, poly, D/s, M/s, height, eye color, and pizza topping choices are welcome (even all veggie pizza, if that’s your thing; your pizza is not my pizza, and that’s OK).

If you’re into rough body play, or if you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it *is* for you. Come to Rough Crowd for overview, instruction, and practice time. Safety and technique will be first, and then ideas and practice time. No experience necessary; you’ll have some by the time you leave.


Standard Info About Rough Crowd

Rough Crowd is:

• 18 & up
• Cheap (ten bucks!)
• Open to all levels of skill and experience

Registration

Every attendee must register for any given Rough Crowd. To register, just go to the eventbrite link above in the details block and follow along. Registration deadline is 24 hours in advance. No exceptions: you must be registered for the event to attend.

How Rough Crowd Works:
If you’ve never been to a Rough Crowd before (or if you just have questions), check out our FAQ:
FetLife: Rough Crowd details: What, Where, When, How
Web: FAQ: When, Where, Who, How

Spread The Word:
Rough Crowd is successful because you guys make it successful. When I post these things, they get as far as the people I know on my own feed, and the few groups I post them in. But the more people this reaches, the better. To spread the word beyond my own personal network, so and we can reach a larger and more diverse crowd, you can help. The more the merrier, and new faces are always welcome and encouraged.

Spread the word on FetLife:
You can help spread the word by posting (or re-posting) about Rough Crowd, linking to this discussion or the event page, in any groups you’re a part of, or even in your own status.

Spread the word on your personal blog:
You can help spread the word on the non-FL web by posting about Rough Crowd and linking to the roughcrowd.org url above. Posts here always have a sister post there.

You can help on Twitter:
You can help spread the word by following me on Twitter (http://twitter.com/roughinamorato) for updates (and other random pervy things) and retweeting info about Rough Crowd.

You can help wherever you and your kinky brethren and… sistren?… gather.
Feel free to spread the word in whatever way you have available to you.

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Hope to see a bunch of you at Rough Crowd,

Roughinamorato


Cigar Chicago August Smoker

Smoker Date: Sunday, August 23, 2015


Our next smoker is Sunday, August 23, 2015, 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm at Blue Havana.

Last time flew by, and 10:00 came way too fast for everybody. So we’ve expanded our time in both directions. We’ll start at 7:00 instead of 7:30 now, and we can stay until 11:00pm!

Kick back with a cigar or two and cigar camaraderie with other kinky cigar lovers. As always, we’re taking over the shop after hours, so it’s just us.

We’re BYOB, so feel free bring your favorite whisky or other spirit and share the love with your friends; who knows, you might just find a new favorite for your bar, too. Or bring some chocolate… but mostly bring yourself.

Patronize Our Host Shop
Like a munch, Cigar Chicago smokers are free to attend, but show the shop we appreciate them letting us use their space and patronize them: they have a fantastic humidor, so buy a cigar. Or two. Or accessories. Or something. (To make it easier, Blue Havana is now extending Cigar Chicago 10% off things purchased during the smoker.)

Who is Welcome
All genders, ages, experience levels, races, shoe sizes, sexual orientations and preferences, partnership status, poly, D/s, M/s, height, eye color, religions, pet preferences, fitness levels, tax brackets, and pizza topping choices are welcome (even all veggie pizza, if that’s your thing; your pizza is not my pizza, and that’s OK).

Bottom line: if you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it is for you. While couples and groupings are always encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come.

Here’s the event page on FetLife if you want to go tell the world you’re going: https://fetlife.com/events/370806

Here’s the group and discussion are here: https://fetlife.com/groups/55753/group_posts/7621644

Questions, please feel free to ask. I look forward to seeing you there.

Roughinamorato

Note that since Chicago requires anyone entering a tobacco shop to be 18 or up, and drinking requires you to be 21 or up, please plan on showing a state-issued ID if asked to do so.

Cigar Chicago September Smoker

Smoker Date: Sunday, September 20, 2015


Our next smoker is Sunday, September 20, 2015, 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm at Blue Havana. Kick back with a cigar or two and cigar camaraderie with other kinky cigar lovers. As always, we’re taking over the shop after hours, so it’s just us.

We’re BYOB, so feel free bring your favorite whisky or other spirit and share the love with your friends; who knows, you might just find a new favorite for your bar, too. Or bring some chocolate… but mostly bring yourself.

Patronize Our Host Shop
Like a munch, Cigar Chicago smokers are free to attend, but show the shop we appreciate them letting us use their space and patronize them: they have a fantastic humidor, so buy a cigar. Or two. Or accessories. Or something. (To make it easier, Blue Havana is now extending Cigar Chicago 10% off things purchased during the smoker.)

Who is Welcome
All genders, ages, experience levels, races, shoe sizes, sexual orientations and preferences, partnership status, poly, D/s, M/s, height, eye color, religions, pet preferences, fitness levels, tax brackets, and pizza topping choices are welcome (even all veggie pizza, if that’s your thing; your pizza is not my pizza, and that’s OK).

Bottom line: if you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it is for you. While couples and groupings are always encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come.

Here’s the event page on FetLife if you want to go tell the world you’re going: https://fetlife.com/events/370807

Here’s the group and discussion are here: https://fetlife.com/groups/55753/group_posts/7621659

Questions, please feel free to ask. I look forward to seeing you there.

Roughinamorato

Note that since Chicago requires anyone entering a tobacco shop to be 18 or up, and drinking requires you to be 21 or up, please plan on showing a state-issued ID if asked to do so.