Tag Archives: 2013

Rough Crowd April: Forearms and Elbows

[Or]  How I Feel When I Think About Tax Day


There’s great power to be had using forearms and elbows, and as we all know, with great power comes great responsibility: the risk of unintended damage is greater too. But used in the right place on the right person at the right time… it can be a really good tool.

So on April 14, come to Rough Crowd to talk and learn about forearms and elbows – the forearm smash, the quiet crusher, the pressure point tickler… I could go on all day. Let’s see how we can incorporate these high torque moves and make sure we don’t break our most precious of toys in the process.

Special note: That evening we’re doing The First Ever Annual Sometimes Rough Crowd Play Party! Come join us for Rough Crowd at our regular space, break for dinner, and then come to GD2 for our first play party!

If you’re a tax procrastinator (protaxinator?), make sure you file before the weekend – you don’t want to miss this just because you were fitfully trying to get your taxes done at the last minute!

Sunday, April 14
1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
Register for location and directions http://www.eventbrite.com/event/5903855591
FetLife Event page is here: https://fetlife.com/events/161076; do sign up, but you still have to register (see above).
FetLife discussion page is here: https://fetlife.com/groups/35092/group_posts/3664362

Bringing your own play partner is always awesome, but not required; while couples and groupings are always encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come to Rough Crowd.

All genders, ages, experience levels, races, shoe sizes, sexual orientations and preferences, religions, pet preferences, fitness levels, tax brackets, partnership status, poly, D/s, M/s, height, eye color, and pizza topping choices are welcome (even all veggie pizza, if that’s your thing; your pizza is not my pizza, and that’s OK).

If you’re into rough body play, or if you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it *is* for you. Come to Rough Crowd for overview, instruction, and practice time. Safety and technique will be first, and then ideas and practice time. No experience necessary; you’ll have some by the time you leave.


Standard Info About Rough Crowd

Rough Crowd is:

• 18 & up
• Cheap (ten bucks!)
• Open to all levels of skill and experience

Registration

Every attendee must register for any given Rough Crowd. To register, just go to the eventbrite link above in the details block and follow along. Registration deadline is 24 hours in advance. No exceptions: you must be registered for the event to attend.

How Rough Crowd Works:
If you’ve never been to a Rough Crowd before (or if you just have questions), check out our FAQ:
FetLife: Rough Crowd details: What, Where, When, How
Web: FAQ: When, Where, Who, How

Spread The Word:
Rough Crowd is successful because you guys make it successful. When I post these things, they get as far as the people I know on my own feed, and the few groups I post them in. But the more people this reaches, the better. To spread the word beyond my own personal network, so and we can reach a larger and more diverse crowd, you can help. The more the merrier, and new faces are always welcome and encouraged.

Spread the word on FetLife:
You can help spread the word by posting (or re-posting) about Rough Crowd, linking to this discussion or the event page, in any groups you’re a part of, or even in your own status.

Spread the word on your personal blog:
You can help spread the word on the non-FL web by posting about Rough Crowd and linking to the roughcrowd.org url above. Posts here always have a sister post there.

You can help on Twitter:
You can help spread the word by following me on Twitter (http://twitter.com/roughinamorato) for updates (and other random pervy things) and retweeting info about Rough Crowd.

You can help wherever you and your kinky brethren and… sistren?… gather:
Feel free to spread the word in whatever way you have available to you.

—-

Hope to see a bunch of you at Rough Crowd,

Roughinamorato

Cigar Chicago April Smoker

Smoker Date: Sunday, April 7, 2013


Our next smoker is Sunday April 7, 6:30-10:00 at Blue Havana. Kick back with a cigar or two and cigar camaraderie with other kinky cigar lovers. As always, we’re taking over the shop after hours, so it’s just us. BYOB is great; we will also be having our local whisky tutor to talk about cognac (see below)! Bring some whisky, bring some chocolate, but mostly bring yourself. We’ll have bootblacking, cognac tasting, a fantastic humidor, and most of all: good company.

Like a munch, it’s free to attend, but show the venue we appreciate them hosting us and patronize them: buy a cigar. Or two. Or accessories. Or something.

Cognac tasting
Cigars with cognac is a time-tested pairing, and our local expert, WhiskeyMaven, will be bringing some of the classic stuff to help us understand more about it. Napoleon and Josephine did it, why can’t we?

Bootblacking
Our local bootblack, Chgoleathergirl, will be there blacking boots for us as usual, and if you’ve never had your boots blacked while smoking a cigar and sipping cognac… some would say you have not yet lived.

For those who have never used the services of a bootblack before, they do their work for the love of and service to leather, but also often to raise money for various causes. In this case, Chgoleathergirl is raising funds for her and her Owner’s title bid (there’s a lot of travel involved – competing for a leather title gets expensive), so please consider being generous.

Who is Welcome
All genders, ages, experience levels, races, shoe sizes, sexual orientations and preferences, partnership status, poly, D/s, M/s, height, eye color, religions, pet preferences, fitness levels, tax brackets, and pizza topping choices are welcome (even all veggie pizza, if that’s your thing; your pizza is not my pizza, and that’s OK).

Bottom line: if you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it is for you. While couples and groupings are always encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come.

Here’s the event page on FetLife if you want to go tell the world you’re going: https://fetlife.com/events/161840

Questions, please feel free to ask. I look forward to seeing you there.

Rough

Note that since Chicago requires anyone entering a tobacco shop to be 18 or up, and drinking requires you to be 21 or up, please plan on showing a state-issued ID if asked to do so.

Rough’s (upcoming) Big Weekend In Seattle

A Special Note From Roughinamorato


Update: I’m really heartened by all this – I’m getting re-messaging an re-tweeting from all kinds of places and people I’ve never even heard of until now. Thank you, all. Keep going!


I don’t usually post things here about my travels to go teach and present in other places, unless it’s something really special or I need a hand. And this one is both!

Next week, on March 7-9 (yes, that’s Thursday through Saturday) I’m going to be heading out to Seattle to teach at the CSPC, the Center for Sex Positive Culture. I’ve heard so many awesome things about them over the years – and about Seattle itself – and I’m really excited to be able to go teach there.

But here’s the thing: I need to get the word out. My social network is good in the Midwest, and not bad on the East Coast. On the West Coast I have some quality connections, but only a few. I want to sell these classes out, both to be awesome for the CSPC, and to make sure I earn my airfare back!

If you’re inclined, here’s how you can help: spread the word. If you have friends in the Seattle/Tacoma area, tell them about these classes (Thurs is a little more intro-level, if that’s their speed). Point your kinky friends to this post or the classes listed below. Retweet my tweets about them this week and next. For anything you can do, I thank you!

Here’s what I’m teaching:

Anything you can do to spread the word is awesome. Help me get a good showing for the CSPC!

And for all my local people – see you this weekend for Breath Play!

Rough

Rough Crowd March: Breath Play

Last July we did Breath Play, and it was our biggest-attended Rough Crowd yet. So we’re going to do it again, with more notice this time, and get everyone who said they were bummed they couldn’t come last time!

Also note that this is the first Sunday in March, not the second.


Sometimes when you’re doing rough body play, and someone starts getting all rowdy (or horny) you just need to choke someone out.

Breath play, like so much of rough body play, is very primal and animalistic; the need to breathe is core to life, and tapping into that fear can lead to all sorts of fun! It can be disorienting, terrifying, fuzzy-floating… for some people it brings on heightened sensation and submission. For others, it brings an incredible sense of intimacy, focus, and connection.

We’ll talk about several methods, risks and ways to mitigate them, and some techniques to help you find the way that works best on you or your partner.

Due to the nature of breath play, bringing your own play partner is highly encouraged for this workshop.

Sunday, March 3
1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
Register for location and directions http://www.eventbrite.com/event/5473978818
FetLife Event page is here: https://fetlife.com/events/153386; do sign up, but you still have to register (see above).
FetLife discussion page is here: https://fetlife.com/groups/35092/group_posts/3325989

If you’re into rough body play, or just interested, come to Rough Crowd for an overview, instruction, and practice time. Safety and technique will be first, and then ideas and practice time. No experience necessary; you’ll have some by the time you leave. ***Bringing a play partner is highly recommended for this day.***

Age, race, gender identification, partnership status, poly, D/s, height, eye color… all do not matter here. If you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it *is* for you. While couples and groupings are always encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come to Rough Crowd.


Standard Info About Rough Crowd

Rough Crowd is:

• 18 & up
• Cheap (ten bucks!)
• Open to all levels of skill and experience

Registration

Every attendee must register for any given Rough Crowd. To register, just go to the eventbrite link above in the details block and follow along. Registration deadline is 24 hours in advance. No exceptions: you must be registered for the event to attend.

How Rough Crowd Works:
If you’ve never been to a Rough Crowd before (or if you just have questions), check out our FAQ:
FetLife: Rough Crowd details: What, Where, When, How
Web: FAQ: When, Where, Who, How

Spread The Word:
Rough Crowd is successful because you guys make it successful. When I post these things, they get as far as the people I know on my own feed, and the few groups I post them in. But the more people this reaches, the better. To spread the word beyond my own personal network, so and we can reach a larger and more diverse crowd, you can help. The more the merrier, and new faces are always welcome and encouraged.

Spread the word on FetLife:
You can help spread the word by posting (or re-posting) about Rough Crowd, linking to this discussion or the event page, in any groups you’re a part of, or even in your own status.

Spread the word on your personal blog:
You can help spread the word on the non-FL web by posting about Rough Crowd and linking to the roughcrowd.org url above. Posts here always have a sister post there.

You can help on Twitter:
You can help spread the word by following me on Twitter (http://twitter.com/roughinamorato) for updates (and other random pervy things) and retweeting info about Rough Crowd.

You can help wherever you and your kinky brethren and… sistren?… gather:
Feel free to spread the word in whatever way you have available to you.

—-

Hope to see a bunch of you at Rough Crowd,

Roughinamorato