Rough Crowd October: Introduction to Rough Body Play

We had a very positive reception to the It’s OK To Hit Them topic in September, so I decided to reach back and do a real intro class. This will be for newbies, people interested in learning about rough body play but not sure where to start, just starting out, ready to go past a little spanking. If you’re more advanced and want to join us anyway, everyone’s always welcome of course – but this is intended to be a real 101 day.

Age, race, gender identification, partnership status, height, eye color… all do not matter here. If you think this sounds interesting, then yes, it is for you.

Don’t worry. For the rest of you, we’ll be doing some advanced stuff soon. Stay tuned.

We’re going to talk about all kinds of hitting, and how it can be fun, enjoyable, erotic, and hot for everyone. We’ll also talk about how it can lead to other sexy things, and how to incorporate it into your playtime. If you’ve got a partner and you’ve both been curious but don’t know how to start – this is a perfect opportunity.

This session of Rough Crowd will be part talk, part teaching, and part practice. Couples are encouraged to come together (hey, isn’t that always nice?), but it’s not a requirement to have a partner to come to Rough Crowd.

Please RSVP using the RSVP instructions, below.

Sunday, October 14

1:00 pm – 4:00 pm

RSVP for location and directions

Event page is up; do sign up, but you still have to RSVP (see below).

If you’re into rough body play, or just interested, come to Rough Crowd for an overview, instruction, and practice time. Safety and technique will be first, and then ideas and practice time. No experience necessary; you’ll have some by the time you leave.

Rough Crowd is:

  • 18 & up
  • Cheap (ten bucks!)
  • Open to all levels of skill and experience


Please note that we have an RSVP policy, with a 24-hour deadline. That means you must have your RSVP in by Saturday noon the day before. It’s pretty easy: go here to follow the RSVP Instructions.

How Rough Crowd Works:

If you’ve never been to a Rough Crowd before (or if you just have questions), check out our “Rough Crowd details: What, Where, When, How”. It’s like a FAQ, but smaller.

A Favor:

Rough Crowd is successful because you guys make it successful. When I post these things, they get as far as the people I know on my own feed, and the few groups I post them in. But the more people this reaches, the better.

You can help on FetLife:

You can help get the word out by posting (or re-posting) about Rough Crowd, and linking to this discussion or the event page above, in any groups you’re a part of, or even in your own status. That helps spread the word beyond my own personal network, and we can reach a larger and more diverse crowd. The more the merrier, and new faces are always welcome and encouraged.

You can help on Twitter:

You can also help by following me on Twitter ( for for updates (and other random pervy things). Help by retweeting info about Rough Crowd; this helps spread the word even further. Thank you!

You can help wherever you and your kinky brethren and… sistren?… gather:

Feel free to spread the word in whatever way you have available to you.

Post away, people! TIA.

Hope to see a bunch of you at Rough Crowd,